Family-court language can make a frightening situation feel even more remote. The names of orders matter, but the central question is usually practical: what arrangement does a child need, and what does the court need to decide?
Important: This is general information, not legal advice. Family-court outcomes depend on individual circumstances. Speak to a qualified legal adviser for advice about your situation.
What a court order is
A court order is a legally binding decision. In child-arrangements cases it can set out what parents must do. It is different from an informal agreement, although an agreement can sometimes later be made binding through a consent order.
The court will only make an order if it considers that doing so is better for the child than making no order. It is not automatic because parents disagree.
Child arrangements order
A child arrangements order can say who a child lives with, who they spend time with and how contact takes place. That can include in-person time, telephone calls or video contact. The order should be read exactly as written: do not assume it means more or less than it says.
It does not use the old language of “custody” and “access”. Using the current language can help keep messages focused on arrangements rather than ownership.
Specific issue order
A specific issue order is for one particular disagreement that parents with parental responsibility cannot resolve. Examples can include a school choice or another specific aspect of upbringing. The court needs a defined question, not a general complaint about the other parent.
Prohibited steps order
A prohibited steps order stops a parent from taking a specified step without the court’s permission. It may be relevant to serious decisions, including concerns about a child being taken out of the country. It is not a routine tool for managing every disagreement.
Consent order
If parents have agreed arrangements, they may be able to ask the court to make the agreement legally binding through a consent order. GOV.UK explains that a judge or magistrate will review it, and parents do not usually have to attend court. Get legal advice if you are unsure whether the document protects the child and reflects the agreement.
Orders are not a substitute for communication
An order cannot write every text message, solve every late train or predict illness. Parents still need a workable way to share relevant information and handle ordinary changes. A short, respectful written communication method can stop small issues becoming fresh disputes.
Changing an order
Children’s needs change. If an existing arrangement is no longer workable, first see whether you can agree a practical variation safely. If agreement is not possible, obtain advice on the correct legal route. Do not simply decide that an order no longer applies.
What an order does not allow
- It does not allow a parent to ignore safeguarding concerns.
- It does not let anyone take a child abroad unless the legal requirements and the wording of the order allow it.
- It does not make either parent the owner of a child.
- It does not remove the need for lawful, child-centred decision-making.
For the step-by-step process and C100 application overview, read our guide to child arrangements and family court.
Official source: GOV.UK: apply for a court order.
Related support
Start with our guide to child arrangements and family court. See the guide on what to do if an order is not being followed and the article about international travel.
Last checked 14 September 2026. Rules, forms, fees and processes can change.
Important: This is general information, not legal advice. Family-court outcomes depend on individual circumstances. Speak to a qualified legal adviser for advice about your situation.
Related articles in this hub
- A Dad’s Guide to Child Arrangements and Family Court in England and Wales
- What to Do When a Child Arrangements Order Is Not Being Followed
- Can My Ex Take My Child Abroad Without My Permission?
Last checked: 14 September 2026. This information is for England and Wales. Scotland and Northern Ireland have different systems.
Official sources: GOV.UK: types of child-arrangements order and GOV.UK: permission to take a child abroad.
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